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When we know what we want in life our decisions lead us
towards that point. Instead of being
reactive to life we should be engaged and not let life just happen to us.
John Gottman talks about this principle as creating shared
meaning. In marriage, when meaning is
shared, conflict and problems tend to be less intense. You are connected on a deeper level through
the experiences you go through together.
Work and sacrifice will be required, but that helps accomplishment and
joy feel that much stronger.
Tonight is an at home date where you take the time to think
about the future and makes plans to reach a goal together. It may be saving for a vacation, getting more
education, working on expressing appreciation more often, etc. Once you have picked a goal, create a plan
and get excited for the future. What is
already helping you get to that point?
What needs to change? Working
together towards a common dream is only going to increase you happiness and
satisfaction.
Celebrate your new plan by making plans to go out to eat to
your favorite restaurant. If appropriate,
share your plan with your friends or family to help keep you accountable and
help you stay on course.
Having goals and objectives will keep you grounded when
times get tough.
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